Since Ben passed away, I had been thinking about getting the tattoo that a friend of his had drawn up. Ben was a big part of my life and was a great person to all that knew him. At some point along the way, I thought that I would rather have a more customized tattoo rather than the one that was drawn up and I started designing a new one. It wasn't until this past week when I saw Matt. He had come over to get some software and he showed me his tattoo. It wasn't until he left that it dawned on me...the tattoo was more than just a tattoo. It was something that connected us to each other.